
Photograph courtesy of 24dash.com
Tina White (pictured) has received help from Knowsley Housing Trust to set up a social enterprise called ‘Parents in Knowsley Under Pressure’ or ‘PIK UP’ which will offer advice and help for parents who are struggling to cope with their children’s anti-social behaviour.
Ms White is currently seeking a suitable office to use as a drop-in centre and advice line, making best use of a grant received from Knowsley Housing Trust.
“Now, with the money from KHT, I am looking to set up in premises in Kirkby and I hope to have some volunteers to help me run it.
“We will provide a non-judgemental listening ear from people who have actually been through it.”
Tina is a mother-of-four who has experienced problems with her own children in the past. Her son, Liam, now aged 20 began smoking cannabis at the age of 11 and was expelled from school soon after. However, Liam now attends Liverpool Community College and is training to be a chef.
Tina, 52, said: “When we were having problems with Liam there was no-one to support us as a family. His behaviour caused so many problems; I left my job because of the stress.
“Once we have an office PIK UP can start to become a properly established service. There are professionals you can speak to, but it is not the same as talking to someone who has been through it.
“You hear a lot about how anti-social behaviour affects neighbourhoods, but not so much about what it does to the families of the perpetrators.
“People blame the parents, or assume the children must come from bad families. It can leave their families isolated.
“Me and my partner both worked and I have three other children who didn’t have these problems. Sometimes people just lose their way and it is hard to bring them back.”
Tina’s son Liam added, "Taking drugs was the worst mistake I have ever made, you end up doing things you would never imagine you would, such as stealing.
“Although I am not long in to the process of getting off drugs things in my life are improving.
“I'm halfway through my third year in college; something I never imagined would be possible.
“I would advise any young person to think long and hard before they try drugs because it might just ruin your life.”
Terry Bonner, Operational Director for Landlord Services at KHT, said: “PIK UP will support up to 50 parents and will provide them with practical assistance in dealing with their children’s’ behaviour.
“The families of children who cause problems in communities very often want to take action to stop the bad behaviour of their child. While thankfully most parents find positive ways to get their children to behave acceptably, some need support and assistance.
“It is vital that parents and guardians are able to stop anti-social behaviour being carried out by their children before it results in a breach of their tenancy which may threaten their family home.”
Here at Housing Jobs, we find people like Tina an inspiration and wish her all the luck with the enterprise!